Tuesday, November 22, 2011

So many friends, yet left behind and feeling so lonely - advice from people please?

Im the type of person who befriends everyone i can - this has resulted in me having 3 major friendship groups.





one outside of school: these go to a different college, and ive been so close to them for the past 2 yrs. however, recently i see a lot less of them due to growing up so i only see them at parties which they invite me to





school friends 1: these are the group who ive carried on from years previously with a few additions who ive become close to since the beginning of this year. i love them and theyre so loyal, but we're not compatible. im into boys and parties and theyre still into sleepovers and film nights, which isnt bad just not the same as me. but my 2 best best friends are in this one





school friends 2: These have been in my class since i was 13 (now 17) and were always branded the cool, big group everyone wanted to be a part of. im half part of this group now - im always out on nights out with them and parties, but i feel forgotten when everyone except me gets a text, or tagged on facebook and im forgotten.





at the moment im hanging out with both school friends, but i feel in the middle and lost without anyone. Do i keep trying for the cool group or stay with my friends despite the uncompatibility?So many friends, yet left behind and feeling so lonely - advice from people please?
It sounds like your friends from school group number one actually care about you. But if you are more worried about being cool, then by all means, let group number one go so they can focus on each other and the friends that want to spend time with them back. But here's the thing, you have plenty of time left to party. I don't know hwy you rushed into it so early. But let me tell you from experience, it sucks. You friends aren't so much your friends, they are just people to have fun with, not people you have real relationships with. And when you actually get to your early 20's, you are gonna be so burnt out on the partying and be over it by the time the rest of the people your age are starting. It may seem like a hard choice now, but it really isn't. And think it through fully, cause that would be a really crappy thing to regret for the rest of your life.So many friends, yet left behind and feeling so lonely - advice from people please?
try and be friends with everyone, that seems best.


but if you feel torn between them both and you feel you have to decide, pick the people who are most like you and like to do things what you do.


and if you were friends with group one, then you'd probably not be forgotton because you'd be here more.


and if you're friends with group two then invite them to parties





but still try to be friends with everyone :)

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