Do you hate it when asking for break up advice and people keep telling you the right guy will come along soon?

Firstly there is no such thing as ';the right guy'; it would be lucky to find a guy I could be with for years. I mean look at the statistics even most fo the people who think they find the right person and get married end up divorced. Then some get re-married, and even re-divorced? What about those alone forever? How many right people are out there?





I know people are just trying to be supportive on break up questions but when they seem to be labouring under the delusion that there is a right person who will magically appear, it makes me sad because that's not true.





I suppose it really helps them get over things...but I can't rely on false hope to make myself happy.





Thoughts?Do you hate it when asking for break up advice and people keep telling you the right guy will come along soon?
My thoughts on this subject is that those words ';the right guy will come along soon'; are only meant to comfort us in times of need. Seriously, when down and out, would you rather hear ';the right guy will come along soon'; or ';you'll never met the right guy';?





I don't believe that there is ';A'; right guy out there for everyone.


I do however believe that there are a lot of people out there who are some what close to what we went in a significant other. When we do find those people we try to make them into what we think our perfect partner should be like(which is where the whole people breaking up because someone was trying to change them originated from). We should not attempt to change him/her but hope that our love is enough to make them want to change for us. That our love for is enough to make them want to compromise and try to understand us and how we might feel.





People are forever changing, they are forever growing in all direction. Sometimes they grow and change together. Sometimes people fall apart, their views and opinions changes. They break up or get a divorce and repeat the cycle. Because no relationship is perfect and people are forever changing, it requires work from both sides to make this imperfect union, perfect.





Some people are just too head strong, maybe more then any guy/girl can handle(not that there are not guys/girls who might like that) or too stubborn. They are unwilling to compromise or to love enough to change. They may be a selfish lover. These can result in them being alone.Do you hate it when asking for break up advice and people keep telling you the right guy will come along soon?
oh i hate those peoples.
I guess these sayings are just for comfort at times. You can only ';be there'; for the broken-hearted ones - they've got to learn how to move on by themselves as well. I mean, love sure is beautiful, but once it's over, it's time to move on. To look at it from a brighter perspective, you gain another experience. I'm not saying that it won't be as painful the second time around, but you'll have a better idea on how to deal with it.


There isn't a definite ';right guy'; in life. Our thoughts and standards change from time to time.


Just a personal thought: Love yourself before you turn to others =) Just because a relationship doesn't work out, doesn't mean that you aren't beautiful inside and out. Thus, spending a life that you enjoy is that much more important than trying to impress those whom you can't.
k yes there is a right person out there, but u never get something for nothing, just waiting for them will not get u with them.... its like if a guy likes a girl whos really shy but also likes him, he can sit and wait for them to start dating all he wants but he wont get her unless he asks, same thing...... as for the marriage thing, quite often its cuz ppl are gettin married out of impulsive feelings or bad situations, u should never marry someone cuz they are pregnant, or its the thing to do, or to get sex , and u should definately never ever marry for love, there will be days where you truly dont love ur partner, u prolly wont even like them, marriage is a committment, divorce is a cowardly way of backing out of that committment, and if u get divorced once, i dont believe u should remarry......... of course its differant if abuse or affairs happen obviously a divorce is a legit solution