Saturday, July 31, 2010

Why do people who are really not qualified in your opinion,like to give you advice?

Opinions are like b-holes, everyone has one.Why do people who are really not qualified in your opinion,like to give you advice?
Because generally it makes the person feel superior


or ';important';.


However, there are few people who ARE qualiffied to give advice, but people are blind to their intellgience because the try to force advice impossible to follow.


Just remember before you say anything keep in mind the person may only be trying to help.Why do people who are really not qualified in your opinion,like to give you advice?
I have a relative who is like that... He likes to hear himself talk. But, he also reminds me of the little robot ';Short Circuit'; (from the movies). He reads lots of books on all kinds of topics and anytime a question or comment comes up, it's like his brain goes into ';recall mode'; and anything he has read about that topic comes out of his mouth--whether you want to hear about it or not. I am a ';bottom line'; person and don't care about details, so I have to remind him that I am looking for a ';yes'; or ';no'; answer rather than an unsolicited education about the subject!
some just like to listen to themselves talk, others really do have advice they have drawn on real life experiences, some people want everyone to do and act they way they believe is best to conform with what they believe society should be, all in all, we are human and for whatever reason we give it, remember, this is yahoo answers so all it is a web page full of it...
Because they want to feel like that they are helping you out and think they they know more than you do. Isn't it irritating? I would just listen to their advice and say thanks for your opinion and then do what you want. Unfortunately, there will always be people like that in life.
Probably because:


A. They think they're qualified


B. They're bored


C. They're jerks and want to give you crummy advice?





Most likely A and B =)
to make themselves feel better


they are bored


they think they are qualified


they think they are doing a good thing


they think you want their advice



if you don't want advice from people who aren't ';qualified';, then don't post questions on an public answer board.
Because they don't want to feel bad for not knowing the answer. Or some people have too much pride to admit not knowing something.
If there is one thing to learn in life.


It's to learn from others mistakes,


rather than your own. %26lt;}:-})



you might find one clue to the question in an ';unqualifed'; answer..that might solve all your problems...
Maybe they just want to feel like they have something to offer.
They think that they are or they just like seeing you get irritated.
Because you're asking questions in a non-exclusive, public forum. This is what we do here.
Maybe they think their answer would really help you out or they want points.
Too feel like there helping out!
may be because or the think they are helping ???????

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