I have a Promblem saying no to people any advice?

I feel bad when i say no any help.I have a Promblem saying no to people any advice?
Yes follow your gut. You are not a bad person just because you cannot help everyone that comes to you for help. People know when you are this type of personality and some will prey upon that. Sometimes you can also help them by helping them help themselves, or listening to their problems etc it doesn't mean you have to be there financially or drive them everywhere. usually people that don't go to there families to help them is because there family is tired of there excuses and using them and has cut them off. I have the same problem but am learning over much time and grief to stand down. Be strongI have a Promblem saying no to people any advice?
It's a shot in the dark, but you might be passive aggressive. It typically occurs with guys more than girls, but a tell-tale sign is being unable to say no, or turn down a project, even if you know you will be unable to handle or say no.





If you don't like postive criticism, hold negative feelings in, and explode at occassions, you just might be PA.
Same here, it causes ALOT of trouble.


Why the fu*k should you have to waste your life making other people's lives better? If they can't solve it for themselves, fu*k it! you should live your life the way you want it, not the way they want it.





:) so next time, say no and no matter how bad you feel - leave it, you know it will only cause you to feel bad doing all this crap for everybody.
You just have to learn to say ';no'; if you can't or don't want to. Help when you can, and when it doesn't negatively affect you. Wanting to help people is one thing, but being a doormat is another. If you don't really want to or you can't...tell them no. What's the worse they're gonna say? Take care of yourself first.
So do I. It kinda sux but I realize that Id feel too bad not to go along with them. Luckily I have somewhat of boundaries (drugs and such) and will hold off there. However, I realize that I only live once and it's much better to have fun and see the people around you happy than sittin alone at home. Good luck.
It's not about No or Yes it's mostly about self discipline and having a true personality. To say the No is the way for you to eliminate from your mind anything that's against your true You, whatever path your choose in life, aestetic, etic or the religious
i also hate saying no to anybody but instead of saying no i go around it for example this guy asked me if i wanted to go out with him but instead of saying no i just said i think of you more as a friend and other times no is just the right answer.
Only say no when it is not important or you don't want to do it. If someone asked you to watch a movie with them and your mom asked you to go with her. Which would you choose? You have to say no sometimes. Just never say no to your parents.
hey i have a friend like that plus i used to be that way...all i can say is that sometimes u just have to be selfish...i'm sure since u don't usually say no that people will understand that u need to take time for urself...
Hunny, you need to girl-up and say no. Don't be afraid, you'd be surprised what it can do for you. You don't have to be a *****, but being assertive will make you feel so good about yourself.
well that just means youre a very kind person.. however, its bad because not alotta people appreciate that.. they take your kindness for weakness.. so its good to say no once in a while.. specially if you dont wanna do it..
You just need to learn not to care what people think. It might be difficult to say no, but you need to learn to stand up for yourself.
Practice saying no to your friends then when you will be able to say NO! Habits CAN kill!
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just say no!!


my sister has the same promblem trust me its not gonna hurt anyone that bad.
no.. thats your own problem..Deal with it
same here.. :(


sry i know that did help i jsut have the same problem haha