I would love advice from people who aren't shy?

k, here's the story, i know im not ugly, but im sooo shy so at school I've had only one boyfriend and it was in 6th grade. But when I'm outside like walking a few blocks to Walgreens or something, I've gotten a couple whistles or like honks from cars. Another problem is that I look 15, when I'm only 13(its not that i have super huge boobs or anything, i just look like Im 2 years older because Im tall-5';5'). Summer will be ending soon and I want a second shot at being ';gf material'; for 8th grade. Can you tell me how NOT to be shy around guys? Also, when do guys get their growth spurts, im sick of being 2 ft taller than all the guys.I would love advice from people who aren't shy?
Just overcome it slowly. Everyone is a person-no matter how different they are-they are people just like you. Think of things that make you super shy and write them down. And then write a quick and easy solution. For example if one says ';Talking in front of crowds';. The next time you talk in front of a crowd, drink water, get your proper sleep, and look, feel and act beautiful. Showing your beauty inside and out can really help get some guys. This doesn't mean having to wear itchy, short dresses that make you feel umcomfortable. Even if you're wearing your pajamas, make yourself feel gorgeous. No one will love you if you don't love yourself. This doesn't mean bragging and having a snotty attitude. Just be sweet and don't over react to your mistakes. If you fall into a fountain here are 2 options


A: You can scream and cry and sit there


B:You can laugh and stand back up


The correct answer is B.


Everybody makes mistakes and some guys describe it as ';cute'; when a girl makes a mistake.





And don't be tired of being tall. Everyone of all shapes and sizes are gorgeous. My friend is extremely short and is dating a tall, very cute guy because she is different. All of the girls are either tall or average and she's short. So being different is a good thing. So no matter what size the boy is-if he doesn't accept you for who you are then he's not worth it. Who knows-you could end up marrying a 4 foot tall man and be madly in love. So don't judge a book by it's cover and if someone can't accept you for who you are-they are not worth it.I would love advice from people who aren't shy?
The guys will get taller soon, my current bf was 5ft3 in 8th grade and 6ft2 his junior year. You just have to wait it out. There's really no way for you too be 100% not shy around guys, but confidence always helps. You know you're a pretty girl, so just remember that when you're talking to a boy you like. Don't be afraid to take chances, if you think a boy is cute tell him! For all you know he thinks your the most beautiful girl in the world and he's just afraid to tell you lol. I know putting yourself out there and just saying it is hard to do, but it won't be the end of the world if he doesn't feel the same way believe me. You're gonna have all of high school and all of college to find that perfect guy for you, don't worry.