Losing my virginity? -- i need advice from people who already have?

I've been dating this guy for awhile now... and i swear he's the one of the best things that's ever happened to me. He's like a best friend for me, i really think he's the one i want to marry. I really want to lose my virginity to him because i trust him, love him, and know he won't think less of me. Also, i'm scared it'll.. but if i'm going to lose it i want it to be with him because i know he'll be gentle. Before i do anything i have the potential to regret though, i want to get advice from people who have already lost it. Do you regret it? Do you wish you had waited? just share your experienceLosing my virginity? -- i need advice from people who already have?
i agree with VIVA





please wait


1. please wait till marriage for intercourse!! its not crap,


2. you'll have actual committment


3. you''ll know ur manl doesn't want you just for sex since he waited for u, shows u got a great guy


4. if u get pregnant, it won'tb such a problem since ur already married!


5. ur parents won't care so much


6. u won't be breaking a commandment


7, u prolly won't feel so guilty





AND WAITING TILL MARRIAGE IS NOT CRAP





love means being willing to wait..:)





make smart choicesLosing my virginity? -- i need advice from people who already have?
well it does hurt a little, but you open up a whole new way of being together that is so uniquely special. And if your sure he's the one there is really nothing to worry about. I make a point of never regretting what i have already done, i simply accept that that was the decision i made at the time and if i think i could have done better i make sure i don't make the same mistake again. if you think now, that is what you want, then share the experience with him. :)
All my friendns wish they would have waited but don't be scared, if you are or you have a feeling than don' t do it. But if you want to then do it. only you can judge if you will regret it or not
I have been married twice,have three kids,didn't have sex till I was 18, got on birth control before I even had sex, and I wish I was still a virgin.It complicates EVERYTHING.Specialy if you end up not marrying him.
LOL at sean





You don't seem ready for sex, just wait. If he is truly the one then just wait till your married, like the other poster said, it will be the most amazing moment of your life. You don't seem ready, and should please wait.
Lol don't listen to the first poster.


It won't be the best night ever, it'll be painful and bloody.


Does that sound fun? Better to get the hard part over with, and move to more enjoyable experiences.
i regret losing my virginity at 14 it was a ******* jerk who ended up just ignoring me after...


make sure its the right guy. cause i regret it so much its something you cant take back unfortunately.
If your sure he's the one you'll marry, wait till your married. That way that night will be the most amazing thing ever.
How old are you?
If your scared, then don't do it?
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Really take your time with this decision. I don't know how old you are but I hope you would wait til you're at least 18. There is only one first time and you wanna make sure that when you look back on your life,you don't regret giving your virginity at the wrong time and/or the wrong person. Your first time could be a beautiful experience or it can be an awkward one. Definately take more time to think about it and talk to some friends who have gone through it. Make sure the timing is right and that you use some form of birth control. And yes,it will hurt the first time..it is a very personal and intimate experience make sure you have no doubts about it. Good luck to you hun
Right well the person i lost it with im no longer with , but it was only a few months ago , i don't regret it because he was so nice and caring , and all the time asking if i was okay , but it was really painful but that's me, and with him it made it okay , i bleed alot too , he was ontop because he had sex before and knew what he was doing and i didnt , i dont wish i waited because its really fun lo0l and it made me so much closer to him , before you have it,im always imbarraced with this kind of stuff but i wasnt imbarraced at all , when you do it with the right person you will know , just relax and trust him x goodluck xx
You have no clue what you are doing and hun trust me i would not give bad advice to anyone, even if i did not know or like them but your virginity is something special and meaningful and you are so young, when you lose it so young, you will continue having sex and when you are married and you have sex, your husband will not apprecite you and you will not completely enjoy it and it may feel like you are being used, is that what you really want? waiting to have sex till marriage is the best decision you could ever make and trust me that may be a long time from now since you are only sixteen but it is worth it and if you regret it then you have issues!
no, i didn't regret it. most people would look down on me cuz i trusted him so fast and gave him my virginity just after a month of dating. but guess what? i still don't regret it. it's been 8 months since i lost it. and i sort of wish i waited, just so i could test him and see if he's in it for the relationship or the sex. if you trust him completely, and thinks he won't break your heart after, i say go for it. but just be careful though. it hurts and you might end up pregnant. if you want your first time to be worry free, go on birth control for at least 3 months. that way you won't worry if you're pregnant or not the day after. i wish i had gone on birth control earlier. and your body might ache the next morning. just because your body isn't used to sex. but it'll get better. i'm just talking from my personal experience, yours could be completely different. my first time didn't hurt, even though he was a virgin also. but everyone is different. oh another thing. you might look at the world completely different. like something's changed. it's because sex brings new emotions. you'll be way more emotional than you were before.





i hope i helped. good luck and be safe. e-mail me if you have any other questions. i remember that night like it was yesterday.