Thursday, August 19, 2010

Ideas on breaking people up...moral advice can **** off!?

Ok...sooo basically, one of our mutual friends has started dating a guy that we've found out from some other friends is jealous and manipulative to the point where it's ridiculous. I need ideas on breaking them up or convincing the girl that he's a scumbag.





By the way, as the title says, if you're going to simply say, how could you want to do that, then you can **** off, and do not bother answering. I am NOT here for your moral comments. Thank you.Ideas on breaking people up...moral advice can **** off!?
u should watch austin power movies..


dr evil will guide u to the right path..


Amin..Ideas on breaking people up...moral advice can **** off!?
My sister dated an *** hole for over a year who was jealous, controlling, isolated her from friends and family and hit her. I tried to talk to her many times about ending the relationship but she wouldn't listen. All his friends would tell her what a POS he was but it didn't matter. She did eventually dump him, but only when SHE chose to. Your friend is prob blind to who this guy really is right now as most people are when a relationship is new. If you try to tell her what a scumbag he is and all that, she will start lying to you about him and their relationship like my sister did, and you don't want that. My sister told me and my parents that she dumped the dude but she was secretly still seeing him and he was still beating her. She will have to realize on her own what a scumbag he is and believe that she deserves better. You could give her a list such as this:





15 Signs of an Abusive Relationship


How do you know if you are in an abusive relationship? Below are some warning signs. Please take these signs seriously. No amount of love will compensate for these inappropriate behaviors.





1) A push for quick involvement


2) Jealousy


3) Controlling behaviors


4) Unrealistic expectations


5) Isolation


6) Blames others for problems and mistakes


7) Makes everyone else responsible for his feelings


8) Hypersensitivity


9) Cruelty to animals and children


10) ';Playful'; use of force during sex


11) Verbal abuse


12) Rigid sex roles


13) Sudden mood swings


14) Past battering (of you or on others)


15) Threats of violence





But you can't ';break them up';. You can only help her become aware of the problem so she can take action.

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