Monday, August 23, 2010

Why are some people so determined to give everybody advice........?

....on how to run there livesWhy are some people so determined to give everybody advice........?
Superiority, Dominance,and last but not least ,a sincere desire of a fellow human being to be helpful.. The last has always been mine.. The sincere people may know you ,like or love you, and are only trying to keep or set you on the right path.. Strangers who are sincere, see your issue as one they have either experienced, or have knowledge of your position,and are trying to help you past this ';bump'; in the road.. Sometimes,it not easy for us to swallow our pride,that we feel we have our own answers, and we become stubborn.. Accept the advice, and think about it,what do you have to lose?? Reject it, if you feel its not in your best interest.. Your in command,and will have to deal with your decisions..Life is a growing experience.. Hopefully ,someday, someone will need good advice, and YOU will step up to the plate,and maybe,just maybe, YOU may make a difference in someones life.. Its a great feeling, when you have done something for someone, and the results are positive for THEM.. You receive the greatest reward!! The other two reasons for giving advice, are for the person who is giving it.. You may sometimes have to accept it ,such as in employment.. But be secure in the thought, you are not like them, and continue on your path of life..Your future is yours.. Live it!! Good Luck!! SOLOMONWhy are some people so determined to give everybody advice........?
why are some people so determined to ask for it??
well if someone posts a question, whats the problem with offering a possible solution and a little bit of advice? you just asked a question,in turn you will get answers,but nobody is trying to run your life...
Because people see others heading for trouble based on real life experience. They hope that their advice will help the object of their comments to avoid getting into this trouble - or, being in it, how to get out of it with the least amount of hurt.





Is that not the same reason people answer questions that are being asked here? Look at how many people are at level 7 where they have answered over 50,000 questions. You have to be pretty determined to take the time to respond to that many pleas for help.
THEY THINK THEY HAVE A BETTER HANDLE ON THE SITUATION THAN THEY THINK YOU HAVE . HEAR THEM OUT MAYBE THEY DO , MAYBE NOT . IN SOME CASES I GIVE ADVICE FROM THE PERCEPTIVE -----BEEN THERE DONE THAT AND SCREWED UP DOING THE EXACT SAME THING YOUR TRYING TO DO . HEAR THEM OUT --------THERE'S A WORD OF WISDOM SOMETIMES EVEN FROM THE VILLAGE IDIOT
At first i had a simple answer for this question, but once i saw the details, all i can say is because they Don't appreciate their own lives, some want to be the spot light of every ones life around them, some are know it alls, some people cant mind their own business, some people feel a sense of power out of the attempt, i can go on, all i know is the intention is never good, i have known people who were like this, and i ended the friendship with them for that, its good to give advice and let the person take it or leave, but you should never tell people how to run their lives, its an insult.
Why not?





If the people DIDN'T want advice on their life then they wouldn't post question about it. And if they didn't post a question about life and how to work it then answers offering advice about that can be safely ignored...
Just pushy.
LOL... cause we have nothing better to do, on top of that it's kinda funny to see how screwed up everone else is, lol! I know thats mean! Oh, and I'm at work and have nothing better to do, lol!
because people are nice and want to help and care about others! I know this is true for me. I found Scientology to be the help I knew I always needed, and I love letting others know about it. I found ways to study more effectively and understand more of what I read, so I think any knowledge that's useful should be passed along!
Makes them feel wanted and useful. (that wasn't advice by the way) :)
thinking that at least you may make use of it..

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