I'm 50 and divorced and I need advice from people that know.?

I'm male and not bad looking for 50. I eat right and try to take care of myself. My question is thais, Where should I go to meet a nice woman? I do not do the bar deal. My male/female friends have tried a few times to set me up, however, it just seems to never work out. I am not looking for a one night but a relationship with a woman who shares some of the same interests. I meet woman at the church I attend but there are not many of them and the ones I do seem to meet even by my friends seem to be most interested in what I make for a living as if deciding weather i would be able to support them. I have a good job and make a good living. I'm just looking for a good, nice woman. I just not sure after all these years, back single again I mean, where to meet nice woman. Any advice would be great.I'm 50 and divorced and I need advice from people that know.?
i knew of a person who met her husband online, so u can meet good people there. u just have to get to know them. some church groups have singles dating clubs. your still young and should be able to find a nice woman, because there are more women than men in the world.I'm 50 and divorced and I need advice from people that know.?
You really limit your pickings if your into going to church, no pun intended. Its hard to find someone with the same faith or any faith at all which does not make them bad people they just have there own beliefs. Your not going to find to much at a bar, i suggest a gym, if your church holds meetings for people going through divorce or have just been divorced you might want to try that. Look in religious chat lines. Good luck
If I were you I would try one of the on line dating sites like eharmony. I like the way they try to match you up and you have some time and you want a good mate, do that one, or at least give it a try. At least you will be going for the same type of person you are, one who doesn't do the bar scene.
Don't turn down any invitations to dinners or parties or anything like that you never know who you will meet at one. Where do you go for walks ? The park or athletic field is a good place to meet someone. Anywhere people go for walks is a good place.
1. Volunteer somewhere


2. Take a class at your local community college


3..Join a gym/Recreational sports/Special interest hobbies


4. Festivals/events


5. Online dating


6. Church


7..Libraries


8.Coffee shops
Try eharmony or look to see if there are any local clubs for divorced people.
Get a hobby..or join a group like Habitat for Humanity...you will meet real women there..and a woman with a hammer in her hand..now that;s pro hot!! Good Luck...
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When you stop looking for the right one, she will appear on your doorstep.


Just date for a while until you get in the groove. The right one will come along sooner than you think.





I feel the same way about meeting men. They play too many games today. But, I did meet a nice man at the Casino (my work). I was not looking to date anyone just yet, b/c I recently separated from my donkey.


He was hanging out with his sister and started talking to me.


A week later, he came back. Asked for my ph # and we've been dating ever since. 10 months now. :)
I am 26 and date a lot. Bars are good for one-nighters but never lead to good relationships - so good for you for not starting there!





I have had the most success meeting people through friends. I think this is because you trust your friends and know they value the same characteristics in people that you do. I am now dating a great guy who I met through my roommate's boyfriend. He is not a big party guy so I would have never met him through my ';old ways'; of going to bars.





So start having dinner parties and ask your friends to bring people they know! You won't meet the quantity of people that you would in a bar, but the quality is 100 times better! Hang out with different groups of people who you respect and admire. They're likely to associate with other, single people who are respectable and admirable too.





Good luck!!!
Go online and study books on relationshipshere are a couple and some links


Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey


Find out what makes you feel good, what you enjoy doing and do it. Do the VIA test at www.authentichappiness.com


Then on the relationship side of things


There is a real good book that has all about ';how to fill your love tank'; get it or download the audio and read it ....The Five Love Languages by Garry Chapman. You will learn what you need to do to make you and your partner feel loved. This will help also help stop the urge to stray





Another thing is to deal with your personal baggage ...this is about forgiveness and acceptance of others warts and all


One last thing get to know yourself


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You could put an ad on the personals with your likes/dislikes. If you have a dog, you could take it to the dog park. Go for walks around shops downtown. Go to an internet cafe/coffee shop. Join a bowling league. Book store where people hang out. If there is some class that interests you, you could take that. These are just a few ideas.


I think you should sit down and make a list of interests you have, where there will be other people. Start going somewhere that is a place that you would like to have another person with you. If they are at the same place, you should have similar interests. I wish you the best of luck in your search!


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My husband and I met off a online dating site. Eharmony was one of the worse. I was on over 7 sites in 9 months. My new husband was 48 when we met. After paying for most sites I found someone honest and true on a free site plentyoffish.com Some people feel if you pay more for a site you get better people, I know this is not true. There is good and bad in all sites... I learned to laugh at all the bad one time dates that I lost count of. The men who I dated more than once I could count on one hand. We live in las vegas, one of the hardest towns to meet someone and with a smile and honesty we found each other online. Smile and good luck.