I need real, mature,informative advice from people who are understanding. .?

Well, this is a long story but worth it :) . In middle school I liked this girl. But, she was just a tease and it really hurt me. Now if you've ever seen me in person, i do not look like an emotional person at all. But my feelings are deep, and that's where this middle school girl hurt me, deep. But, maybe it was my fault for falling in teenage love with a tease.





So now as a freshman in high school I am new to things as a freshman would obviously be. We have block days in high school, odd classes (1-3-5-7) and even classes (2-4-6-8). Well in my even class, Music Theory, I didn't really see anything interesting. Then out of nowhere I see this beautiful girl out of the corner of my eye. Now it's human male nature to take a look at a pretty girl/woman. So I glanced over, and she was looking at me too. So I quickly looked the other way slightly embarrassed. Then I realized she was quite beautiful so I took another look. She was staring at me again. By starring I mean directly into my eyes. I turned look at her, now most of the time a girl/boy would turn their heads quickly if caught starring. But not her, she continued to stare at me for about 4 seconds with a slight smile, but it felt like an eternity. Then she looked away, I was amazed at how beautiful her eyes were whilst staring into mine.





After this ordeal we had a music assignment in class, so she stood in her group and I was in my my group. Occasionaly she would glance at me, and I would see her through my perifeal vision. Not much happened after this. She just hurried out of the room with her girl friend laughing. Of course i had to see what she was packing, so i took my place behind her and took a little look (wink wink.) Can't blame a guy for inspecting. I'm no perve, I just wanted to see what she was working with.





So today, August 28th, I had class with her again. I showed up to music theory early, standing in front of the classroom. Well, by the coincidence of fate, she showed up also. So, I am standing against a locker and she's directly across from me. She was kind of ancy, like she couldn't stand still. I wanted to say something so bad my heart hurt. But I froze up and said nothing, then the bell rang and we entered class.





Now in the class there aren't enough desks for everyone, so my friends and I sit on the left side of the class in chairs at a table. So, I was expecting the same result as the other day. Share glances, and then leave class. Well today we had a short class due to an essembly. i was saddened by this because I couldn't see her for as long as I would like. The way this boy was sitting in front of her was blocking my view of her. But she would peek over his back to look at me. She tried to make it look as if she wasn't but I could tell she was trying to sneak it. Now I've read online things about ';How to tell if a girls likes you.'; If her crossed leg is pointing towards you, if she unknowingly leans her body towards you. If she plays with her hair while looking at you and so on. So, she was doing the following as i just listed.





we would catch glances again and again. Then the bell rang and we left class. Instead of leaving class fast and laughing with her friend, she left with a head down walking at a medium pace. You know, like if a girl was sad or something, she would cross her arms over her binder and walk with her head kind of down. Well, this is how she walked.





I tried to see where she went after she went out of the door, but she was gone.... Now i have to wait a few days to see her again. i don't know where she hangs out at lunch, and we only have one class toghether. So, I have very little chance to see her.





Listen girls, and guys. I know what most people say: Brave up and ask her out! Start a small conversation! blah blah blah. I need very informative information on what to do. i'm not trying to be picky, but i want to know what to do before I lose her or she's taken. I know her name, but that's all. I've been in ';love'; before, and it failed on an extreme level because she was a tease.





I understand this is long, but i had to get it all out. Explain my feelings and give you the best informatoin as possible so you can hopefully give me a mature, informative, and great answer in return.





Thank you all very, very much.


Sincerely,


TreyblueyesI need real, mature,informative advice from people who are understanding. .?
Well it kinda obvious that she likes you too. So if I was her and I liked you what I would want you to do is this: when she stares at you slightly smile at her but not for a long time, just acknowledging that you have noticed her. Then if you have a chance that same day try to 'coincidentally' sit or stand next to her. Wait a minute then turn to her and say hi. Just have small talk like what's your name (even though you already know it) then just say something like well I'll talk to you later and leave it at that. Then next time you see her talk to her again and it should be easier since you're acquaintances now. From then on just have longer conversations, try to get to know her. Then when you feel its the right time ask her to hang out. To watch a movie or whatever, something really casual.


Hm, I think that should about cover it.


Hope everything turns out fine (:I need real, mature,informative advice from people who are understanding. .?
ok dude. she either likes u or thinks ur interesting. being interesting could be either a bad or a good thing. it depends. i would wait a little bit and see if she talks to u. she probably wont unless shes a flirt. and if shes not a flirt thats good. she would be committed to u. soo i say that sometime soon u talk to her. but no corny pick up lines like ';whoa theres something wrong with my phone.. ur numbers not in it'; yeah dont go with cheesy pick up lines. good luck dude.